Tuesday, June 05, 2012
Kids, Goals and Confidence :)
The most successful adults that I know are not necessarily those that try hardest with goal-setting, or that read the most motivational books. They are the ones that have an inner CONFIDENCE they WILL get what they strive for.
Every baby is born with his or her own personality, and you can’t MAKE your child be self-confident. But the interactions that you have with your child at a very young age do have a significant impact on his confidence.
From the earliest age possible, try to:
1) Take a GENUINE interest in the events in your child’s life – ask what happened at school or play school, and then REALLY listen. This shows your child that he has worth because he feels worthy of your attention.
2) Offer plenty of praise and encouragement.
3) Praise effort, skills and attributes as well as successes.
4) Show your child that you have confidence in his ability to do for himself by allowing him to perform age-appropriate tasks for himself without you “helping”.
5) Allow your child to make age-appropriate decisions, and then respect them.
Happy Parenting - Have an Awesome Day!!!
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